WHY WASN'T I ACCEPTED This could be because -Something about your profile was suspect to one of the admins. -You may have recently registered and have no posts, no friends and no groups added (which appears to be almost like a sockpuppet account) It is not the end of the world if you get your membership rejected the first time. Stay on LJ for a little bit longer, and you may try again, and might be accepted.
A Helpful Loli-Related Website is Avant Gauche. It has the single most comphrehensive list of Loli related companies of any place. It also has scans from the GLB, so by all means, please visit that if you have any questions.
Also, I cannot stress going to egl enough. If you can't get the answer that you seek here, that community is filled with people what WILL help you out.
As I have had this question before - yes, I (owner) do take interviews. I would prefer that you have an LJ on hand and PM me - I am a rather evasive person.